Living in a hotel has a taught me a lot about myself.
Monthly Archives: May 2012
Living In A Hotel
I thought I’d give a quick update on the house situation. We’re still waiting. How’s that for an update?
Things are moving forward but nothing is set in stone yet.
For now we are living in this hotel. It’s…interesting. It’s not the fanciest hotel in town but it’s clean and it’s relatively convenient to where we go to work and school.
There is one bedroom. The kids sleep on air mattresses in the living room now. The pull out couch gave them back aches. You know if a seven year old has a back ache, the bed must be bad.
So what life looks like is the kids go to bed at 8 pm and then we sit in our bedroom and watch tv or whatever. Then Matt goes to bed around 9ish and I try to watch tv or something but he snores so loud that I give up and just go to bed too.
Needless to say, we are all tired. We are getting much less sleep than we normally get. The kids wake up if we so much as sneeze or get up to use the bathroom. Basically, if one person wakes up, we all do. It’s not pretty. But we’re trying. We’re making it work.
I’m just thankful there is a full(ish) kitchen. I brought my own dishes and pots and pans. (And blankets. And pillows.) OCD clean freak? Yes, please.
We are doing plenty of swimming to make up for the rest.
We are hoping to close on the house in the middle of June. So, just a few more weeks of this. I can do that, right?
Sure I can!
Pass the wine and the snorkel.
The Middle Child Syndrome
The Middle Child Syndrome. It’s the thing that has middle children everywhere wondering about their place in the world. I was a middle child but I was also the only girl so I think that cancels it out.
Our middle child is Chase. He is eight years old. He is the most relaxed and easy going child on the planet. It is for that reason that I think we have allowed the Middle Child Syndrome to sneak in. We really don’t try to leave him out or anything. But apparently, it’s happening.
He had a bit of a melt down last night and when it came down to it, he explained it like this,
“It’s always oldest to youngest or youngest to oldest in this family! WELL WHAT ABOUT THE MIDDLE KID?!”
Oh. Whoops.
We apologized profusely for making him feel left out and swore to him that we aren’t trying to do it purposely. We promised to be more aware of it and to let him go first sometimes too.
So last night he got the first piece of dessert. You should have seen the smile on his face.
My encouragement to you today is to think about your middle child. Are you unknowingly making him or her feel second best?
Just something to think about from the Mom who is giving her middle child the first piece of dessert for the rest of his life.
Recipe: Fried Cheese Curds
I was born in Wisconsin so it should come as no surprise that I love cheese curds! A while back I tried frying them and WHOA they were so good. The link I had saved for reference is no longer valid so I went on a google search for a new one. Here is one that I found that seems very similar to the one I had used. Try it. If you like cheese and frying stuff, you are in for a real treat!
Fried Cheese Curds recipe from simplecomfortfood.com
A couple of extra tips:
I used milk instead of beer.
Make sure your oil is at 375 degrees.
Let the cheese curds get to room temperature before coating.
Enjoy!
Why I Hate That One M&M’s Commercial
If you are a parent, you probably already know which M&M’s commercial I’m talking about it.
OK. So it’s funny. I laughed. The song is catchy. I get it.
But why. WHY. Do we need to market candy with sex?
WHY?
My kids see this commercial on tv all the time. And they laugh. And now my seven year old knows the word sexy. No, he did not know it before. There is no reason he should. Sexy is an adult word. It has nothing to do with anything that a kid needs to know about it. Call me old fashioned. Call me strict. I DON’T CARE.
I’m really tired of our culture over-sexualizing everything. (Shut up little red squiggly line. Over-sexualizing is a word today.) It’s unnecessary. It bothers me.
Sending the message that getting naked and dancing about being sexy in a group of people is not ok. Even if they are just candy. Especially because they are candy. No, candy is not just for kids. But airing that commercial at all times of the day knowing kids are watching it is not ok with me. Funny or not. I’m not calling for a ban on M7M’s in protest. I’m not going to get all loud-mouthed and obnoxious about it. But I don’t like it. So I thought I’d say so.
And that’s how I feel about that.