I've talked about it before, but I'm back to it. I've been thinking lately about my kids' mistakes. As a parent you want to protect your kids, to help them along as much as possible. But I am finding that fixing their every mistake is only hurting them in the end.
My job as a parent isn't to catch my child every time they fall, it's to make sure when they fall, they know what to do, how to respond and how to get back up again.
This is my latest parenting technique I need to work on.
What will my son learn from more? Me bringing him his boots (that he forgot) so he can play outside at recess or letting him sit inside alone for recess? Me nagging at him "Don't forget...don't forget...don't forget!" or letting him forget and feel the natural consequences of that irresponsibility?
Through the reading of my favorite parenting book, Parenting With Love and Logic, I am realizing that letting my kids deal with their own mistakes is what is best for them.
The price tag on mistakes right now is low. But one day they will be high. I want to teach them how to handle failures and mistakes now, while the price tag is small and we are here to remind them to put their hands out in front of them so they don't land face first.
I don't want to remain a rescuer/helicopter parent. It's not healthy for me or for them.
What do you think about fixing kids mistakes?
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